Welcome to the "What's Your Problem?" Community!

Episodes

923. Don't be you today.
June 4, 2025

923. Don't be you today.

Send us a text I just finished Andrea Waltz and Richard Fenton's new book, "Go For No (the sequel)." Cassidy, who is fresh out of college, goes to work with her dad selling, and wasn't prepared for the amount of rejection she was facing. Full of doubt, she told her dad, "I don't think I can do this…
It may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility.
June 3, 2025

It may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility.

Send us a text Many people view responsibility as fault. "Who's to blame for this?" But finding blame and fault only keeps you stuck and powerless. Some things may or may not have been your fault. You can't rewrite the past, but you can begin writing your future, but only if you take responsibility…
922. Separation is good. Distance is bad.
June 2, 2025

922. Separation is good. Distance is bad.

Send us a text Recently, I took a week off. I didn't write, read, or work out. The first few days felt good, but the good vibes quickly tarnished. I began to feel purposeless, hopeless, and dark. That is when I realized that separation is a good thing, but too much distance from the things that you…
921. If You Are Not Happy With Your Life, You Can Change It In 2 Ways...
June 1, 2025

921. If You Are Not Happy With Your Life, You Can Change It In 2 Ways...

Send us a text John Ruskin wrote, "If you are not happy with your life, you can change it in two ways: change the conditions in which you live or (I say, and.) change your inner spiritual state. The first you cannot always change, but the second one you can." Happiness is a direction, NOT a destina…
920. Why You Need (Productive) Tension In Your Life.
May 28, 2025

920. Why You Need (Productive) Tension In Your Life.

Send us a text Let's get it. Today, I unpack the hidden value of productive tension—why it’s not something to avoid but something to embrace if you want real growth. After taking a short break and feeling an unexpected sense of emptiness, I realized that peace isn’t always the absence of tension… I…
919. Patience Is The Long Game That Pays Off (Literally)
May 25, 2025

919. Patience Is The Long Game That Pays Off (Literally)

Send us a text We all say we want success, growth, and impact, but very few of us are willing to wait for them. In this episode, I unpack a short but powerful chapter from Gary Vaynerchuk’s book 12 1/2—the chapter on patience. It’s only four pages long, but it hits like a sledgehammer. Because pati…
918. Same Shift, Different Day.
May 17, 2025

918. Same Shift, Different Day.

Send us a text Have you ever asked someone how they are doing and they respond by saying, "Same shit, different day." You might feel like you're working the same job, walking into the same rooms, dealing with the same people and problems. But what if you started to see new opportunities within thos…
917. Be Better On The 10th Day - feat Cameron Hanes "Undeniable"
May 13, 2025

917. Be Better On The 10th Day - feat Cameron Hanes "Undeniable"

Send us a text How many times have you quit 3 days into something new? How many times have you broken your 7 day streak and said screw it! How far did you get into your 90-day commitment? Yep, me too. Foresight is forever. Hindsight is laced with regret. How about 10 days? You can do anything for 1…
916:  The ONE Question That Will Make Your Future Easier.
May 12, 2025

916: The ONE Question That Will Make Your Future Easier.

Send us a text Today, I am rocking out of Shane Parrish's Book, "Clear Thinking." (We all need clearer thinking :) He made a statement that set the course for this episode, "There's ALWAYS something you can do TODAY to make your future easier." What can you do? Click play to learn how. Let's get it…
915. The Hidden Risk of Being Too Efficient
May 5, 2025

915. The Hidden Risk of Being Too Efficient

Send us a text Have you ever stop to think that maybe you’re too efficient? That the very thing you’ve perfected is now holding you back? In this episode, I explain the difference between efficiency and adaptability and why y...
914. Are Your Story-telling Or Story-selling?
April 30, 2025

914. Are Your Story-telling Or Story-selling?

Send us a text Today, I am rocking out of Bryan Eisenberg's new book, "I Think I Swallowed An Elephant," and it is about storytelling vs. story-selling. We are wired to tell stories. The question is, what kind of story are yo...
913. "Wait & See" is sabatoge.
April 27, 2025

913. "Wait & See" is sabatoge.

Send us a text How many times have you said, "Let me wait and see," hoping that things will magically fix themselves so you don't have to make the tough decisions? Indecisiveness makes you soft, weak, and dependent on others....
912: Losses Don’t Kill Dreams — Refusing to Learn Does
April 26, 2025

912: Losses Don’t Kill Dreams — Refusing to Learn Does

Send us a text In this episode, you’ll learn how to turn every loss into a gain. I’ll show you why failing is part of real success, how to profit from your setbacks, and why taking risks is the key to lasting growth. Stop tak...
911. "Be humble in preparation and arrogant in performance." Featuring Brian Levenson's "Shift Your Mind."
April 24, 2025

911. "Be humble in preparation and arrogant in performance." Featuring Brian Levenson's "Shift Your Mind."

Send us a text Arrogance is a necessary ingredient for success. So too is humbleness. So, when should you be arrogant and when should you be humble? If you seem to be stuck or in a stalemate, it's probably because you've flip...
910. Faith It Till You Make It
April 15, 2025

910. Faith It Till You Make It

Send us a text You've heard of "fake it till you make it." And you may have heard of "make it till you make it." But there's a third level: " Faith it till you make it." When the odds say you won't make it, you still soldier ...
909: How to Work Out of Anything (Inspired by Sun Tzu)
April 13, 2025

909: How to Work Out of Anything (Inspired by Sun Tzu)

Send us a text Feeling stuck? Overwhelmed? Don’t know where to start? In this episode of What’s Your Problem? , I'll break down a powerful quote from The Art of War and show you how to work your way out of any problem —step b...
908: You can't live in a cabin in the woods for the rest of your life.
April 10, 2025

908: You can't live in a cabin in the woods for the rest of your life.

Send us a text Tolstoy said, "Any self-improvement is impossible if you live constantly in the bustle of the everyday world—but it’s also less possible if you live in constant solitude. (You can’t do that either.) If you want...
907: How To Experience Happiness Every Day feat. Socrates
April 7, 2025

907: How To Experience Happiness Every Day feat. Socrates

Send us a text Socrates once said: “I consider there to be nothing better than trying to improve the way you live, and that there is no greater pleasure than the feeling that you are indeed improving the way that you live. It...
906. Instead of making the right decision, make the decision right. feat. Dr. Ellen Langer's "The Mindful Body."
April 5, 2025

906. Instead of making the right decision, make the decision right. feat. Dr. Ellen Langer's "The Mindful Body."

Send us a text Have you ever been stressed out about making the right decision? Have you ever made a decision and wished you had picked the other one? Yeah, me too. Let me put your mind at ease: There is no way to absolutely ...
905: Learning Is Not A One-Time Event It's An Everyday Thing. feat. Kobe Bryant's "Mamba Mentality."
April 3, 2025

905: Learning Is Not A One-Time Event It's An Everyday Thing. feat. Kobe Bryant's "Mamba Mentality."

Send us a text "When it came to basketball, I had no fear." ~ Kobe Bryant. Ain't that the truth. Today I'm rocking out of Kobe Bryant's book "Mamba Mentality. How I Play." I will show you why he had no fear, how he could adap...
904. Chase The Effort...Sometimes The Results.
March 30, 2025

904. Chase The Effort...Sometimes The Results.

Send us a text Break free from the frustration of slow or inconsistent results by focusing on what you can control—your daily effort. Instead of obsessing over outcomes, build momentum through consistent, non-negotiable actio...
903: Three Ways To Combat Low Self-Esteem
March 23, 2025

903: Three Ways To Combat Low Self-Esteem

Send us a text You don't suffer from low self-esteem; you've leaked it for some time. Today, we will change all that by simply asking 3 "What" questions. By the end of this episode, you will begin building your self-esteem ba...
902: Why You Should Keep Your Hopes, Dreams, & Ambitions Quiet 🤫
March 19, 2025

902: Why You Should Keep Your Hopes, Dreams, & Ambitions Quiet 🤫

Send us a text The very people who try to talk you out of your dreams are the same ones who gave up on theirs. Today, with Uncle Epictetus's help, I'm going to share with you why you should keep your dreams to yourself. Downl...
901: Boldness Is An Acquired Skill | Robert Greene's 48 Laws Of Power
March 17, 2025

901: Boldness Is An Acquired Skill | Robert Greene's 48 Laws Of Power

Send us a text You weren't born timid, so why are you living timidly? You probably don't realize how you've become timid by worrying about fitting in and how others think about you. No one has your best interest in mind more ...