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April 20, 2020

How To Develop Your Inner Circle

Social media generates followers, "friends," and connections, but I've never thought about developing an inner circle. I thought inner circles were for the Oprah's, Tyler Perry's, and Warren Buffet's of this world. Melissa Burrow author of "Chasing Bentleys: The power of accountability in achieving your goals" (get the book) designed…

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April 18, 2020

Few now...few later

This was my 92nd episode I recorded and realized that I’d never published it so it’s been sitting in my drafts for a couple of years. Today is a remix of that episode. 🔥The question to you, “Are you doing what most or few are doing?” If you’re a part…

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April 16, 2020

Assumptions won’t lead to options

When I was hired into sales, the 1rst piece of advice that I got was, "Don't assume anything." Don't assume you know who's a buyer and who's a liar. Don't assume you know if they'll put more money down or take a vehicle with less equipment or higher miles. Think…

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April 15, 2020

I don’t need encouragement right now...I need a command

Sports psychologist Michael Gervais (he's got a really good podcast called "Finding Mastery") embarked on a 30 mile paddle board competition, but on mile 21 he was disoriented and found himself on his knees. The boat trailing him couldn't help him-otherwise he'd be disqualified, but the boat captain walked to…

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April 14, 2020

Invest in “Big Energy” people

The comment was towards the end of the podcast and I almost turned it off. “You are the company that you keep,” said @ryanserhant on Jordan Paris podcast. Who’s in your camp? Who do you chop it up with most? “Is it easy to be like them?” If you were…

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April 13, 2020

Don't wait for "the other side..."

There are 3 types of salespeople right now: 1)Those who are waiting for the all clear in order to go back to work 2)Those who believe that things are going to be great “on the other side of this” 3)Those who get better now so when better comes they’re the…

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April 10, 2020

Choose a Worthy Rival

Chapter 9 in Simon Sinek’s book “The Infinite Game,” is a game changer for you. What if you moved from seeing a person or business as your competitor to one of a Worthy Rival

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April 8, 2020

Your power is in your 1rst reach

When you walk into certain rooms...change environments...or get around certain people, what’s the 1rst thing you reach for? Your first reach is either empowering or disabling you. Thanks for watching. Please share with someone who could use this episode. Also subscribe to be a part of The Sales Life. 💪

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April 6, 2020

Find your CA’s: Competitive Advantages

You have Competitive Advantages over the most richest, powerful people on the planet. You just don’t see it...but you will after today. “Find your pain points and attack it earlier & more frequently.”

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April 5, 2020

Character can be your fate or your destiny

Author Robert Greene added to Greek philosopher Heraclitus’ quote & discussed it on Jordan Paris’ podcast. I’ve been on both sides of the coin. Because of my character I was nearly destroyed...& other times I’ve risen to the occasion. One thing is certain, adversity always comes back & when it…

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April 5, 2020

Don’t compete at eye level

Riffing from Benjamin Hardy’s great book “Willpower Doesn’t Work,” about who you’re competing with. If your skills aren't developing fast enough or your career is at a standstill, it’s because your competing at eye level & not “there” level. You can’t be taller but you can compete taller.

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April 2, 2020

Brown Water Moments: How to stay with change

You know when you go into an old house that’s been closed up for a while & when you turn the faucet on, the pipes rattle & the water comes out brown? That’s what change is for you. Your work & results stink. Keep your work flowing. 💪

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April 1, 2020

That’s your generator kicking on: Achieve success but keep your survival

Hip Hop artist Jeezy said of hearing of another artist’s untimely death, he was reminded to never lose that “survival” mentality. “Talent is 90% but survival is 10%.” It seems the more success comes the more our survival skills go. You gotta keep a little edge because you never know…

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March 31, 2020

Self awareness ain’t fair

It’s not supposed to be. Adapt & win anyway.

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March 30, 2020

Success is heavy

Everyone wants the weight of success, but a lighter, easier life. It don’t work that way.

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March 29, 2020

You’re rated PG: Productively Generous

I want to jump in on producer Brian Koppelman & Seth Godin’s conversation about putting pressure on yourself in a “Productively Generous” kind of way. It’s more of a “clean burn” leaving you feeling that you created and contributed something of immense value (for you and others).

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March 28, 2020

Learn how to learn

The playing field is even- but it won’t be for long. Take the shift & learn how to learn

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March 27, 2020

Fill your gaps with vision: You can see lack or the opportunities

When I needed it most, I found Molly Fletcher’s book “Fearless at Work.” I kept coming back to a chapter titled “Trading gaps for vision.” You have a choice to make in life; see the gap & all of its lack or fill the gap with vision.

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March 26, 2020

Losses have handles too

It’s funny how we handle the wins, but hold the losses. When we win we’re looking for the next win but when we lose, we think we’re never gonna win again. Just like you handle a win, handle the losses too. Thanks for watching! Please subscribe to not only TSL…

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March 25, 2020

Play with certainty FOR the uncertainty: Dig your well before you’re thirsty

Most people live with certainty thinking that just because they can’t see or sense uncertainty, that everything’s cool. So they live with certainty instead of playing with certainty. Living with certainty is thinking "this will stay this way forever whereas playing with certainty is knowing that nothing stays the same.…

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March 24, 2020

Who’s holding your charge? Letting go of those who are draining you

Sometimes I'll grab the keys to a ballin' $60,000 truck equipped with the panoramic sunroof, 12" screen with navigation, heated and ventilated seats, remote start and 22" rims, jump into the seat and the truck won't start...so I have to run all the way back inside, grab the battery box…

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March 17, 2020

Risk your time, not your life: How taking a "risk" isn't a risk after all.

Hip Hop artist Jeezy saw firsthand how people would lose their life over a drug deal gone bad, but when it came to business, he’d see a man use his mind to generate millions of dollars! “What is it that I don’t know,” he asked himself. To learn, he began…

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March 13, 2020

“I don’t know” can keep you down or lift you up

When you say “I don’t know,” does it end with a period or does your new life begin with a pause- just long enough until you pivot and figure it out. Most people not only delegate the answer, but delegate their lives to “I don’t know.” Thanks for watching! Subscribe…

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Feb. 24, 2020

You don’t need a tie to make it big! Stop waiting for permission

Astrophysicist Neil Degrasse Tyson stepped to the podium to give a speech and noticed the young man who was introducing him’s tie. “Why are you wearing that tie?” he asked. “Because I’m going to Harvard,” he answered. “You’re not wearing the tie because you’re going to Harvard; you’re wearing the…

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