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Celebrity Trainer Dolvett Quince's method to generate massive weight loss in those he trained on the TV show, The Biggest Loser was to give them "glimpses of potential."

Coaching them to a final result seemed too hard, so instead, he broke it down to ticks. Quince took them one tick above their "…

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What does it mean to "Sell the NO?"

When you have to say NO, you give supporting reasons as to why it is a NO.

One of my lenders taught me this. When I have to call him on a "gray area" deal, & he declines it, he'll give me supporting reasons why & how it could be a YES.

A large reason people …

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If everybody has the same amount of time in a day, then haven't you achieved more? Why aren't you in better shape? Why haven't you become an expert in your field or started that business?

You'd probably say, "There's just not enough time," right? You don't need more time. You need more focus.


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The longer the time from finish to your next start, the longer it'll take you to master your craft. Learn anything faster by shortening your feedback loops.

Shortened feedback loops boost your experience, creativity, and ability to handle damn near anything.

Learn how to:
1. Embrace the no-rest…

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Numbers don’t work against you. Numbers are just being numbers. The emotions that you add to those numbers is what’s working against you. Want to change the numbers? Then change the #emotions.

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Whose race are you running? At one time you were the one out in front. You looked good, felt good, and your career was thriving, but today you're sluggish and stuck in your career.

You didn't lose your touch, you lost your pace. Unknowingly you slipped into someone else's race and slowed to their…

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"This too shall pass" wasn't written for you to wait...it was meant for you to relentlessly be on the attack.

Do you have an attack mentality? In his book, "Relentless Solution Focus," Dr. Jason Selk writes that successful people are always on the attack. They ATTACK one thing relentlessly & even…

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Today on The Sales Life, it is my pleasure to bring on Nina Sossamon-Pogue. Nina is a Emmy award winner. Author. Speaker.

And just an overall bad-ass, resilient individual. In episode 589 back in October of 2020. I read her book, This Is Not The End, and did an episode about needing a script for…

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When Jesse Itzler was first starting Marquis Jet, one of his salespeople turned to him and said, "This is hard. All of my customer's are pushing back on me." Itzler looked at the young salesperson and said, "Of course it's hard. What took you so long to realize it? Your job as a salesperson is to p…

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As a young man at football camp, a kicking coach gave Josh Altman some sage advice. No matter what’s on the line or the pressure you may feel, “always kick the ball the same.”

Not only did Altman carry that forward as an athlete, he carried it forward in his career as a highly successful real es…

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It only takes you a split second to talk all about the "do-wrongs" in your Sales Life, but do you recognize your "Do-wells?" Dr. Jason Selk author of the book "Relentless Solution Focus" (RSF) writes that a part of mental toughness is learning to force yourself to recognize your "do-wells." He even…

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When did it happen? Do you remember what day it was....or what it even was? There was a time you were a boss, beast, and certified bad-ass...but today your life is just bad. It all seems wrong, doesn't it? "All" being the operative word.

In his book, "Relentless Solution Focus," Dr. Jason Selk wr…

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Suneel Gupta, author of the book “Backable. The surprising truth behind what makes people take a chance on you,” said on Ryan Hawk’s Learning Leader Podcast, “A jazz musician one told me that when he goes onstage, he goes up with confidence. He has confidence not that everything will go right, but …

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Richard Fenton, Co-Author of the book “Go For No” said on a recent interview, “Your comfort zone never stays the same, it’s either shrinking or expanding.”

A quick test for you today is to ask yourself the question, “Am I shrinking or expanding?” Don’t think for one minute that it’ll stay the s…

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April 20, 2021

Your gain is in your gaps

“Going onto a movie set is like something you’ve never seen,” said Jay Shetty to his good friend & actor Will Smith. “It’s pressure packed with so many moving parts. Everyone has to be in position, remember their lines, & get the shot before the sun goes down.”

“I knew you were committed to per…

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They say when the student is ready the teacher will appear, but they never anything about when a teacher should become the student again.

In 23 years of selling, I’d had bad months, but never finished dead last 2 months in a row. I did everything I knew to do. I didn’t blame or voice my frustrat…

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I hate the phrase, “It is what it is,” because it seems so accepting...as if things are beyond your control and doing.

But maybe I was wrong...

Michael J. Fox has been coping with Parkinson’s for over 30 years. How does he cope with falling down often; when he can’t push the buttons on his p…

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Sometimes you’ve gotta ride the pine to earn the podium. In your quest for success, are you willing to ride the bench?

Meaning that you walk in wanting to be a starter, yet you’re no where close to getting your shot. What will you do then?

Full live episode 👉

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You may be blocking your own success because you don’t know what to do with your ego.

There are conflicting messages about your ego. Some people tell you to get rid of it...while others tell you to let it rise ⬆️.

Today I’ll break your ego down & tell you what to keep & how to dominate.

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If I were to ask you what a King Kong month or goal for you is, how would you answer it without thinking?

If I then asked you why haven’t you achieved it, without breathing or blinking, I’d bet you could give me 99 things blocking you.

Dr. Ellen Reed co-author of “Relentless Solution Focus.…

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“OMG I have to start over!” can feel helpless. You put your ALL (& then some) & now you have to start all over...

Or do you? You may be starting again, but you’re not starting from scratch.

Here are ways that you can leverage your past to catapult you forward.

#TheSalesLife #podcast #care…

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Momentum is sneaky. You don’t know when it’s going to kick in and by the time you’ve realized you’ve lost it, it’s too late.

Here are 5 ways to spot momentum slips so they don’t cost you BIG TIME later.

🗣 ADD TO THE LIST! What are other ways that you can spot momentum slips? Leave them in th…

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If you’re trying out for the team; starting out in sales; just got your business or real estate license, or starting a creative such as a blog, podcast, or vlog ....

In your quest for success, are you willing to ride the bench?

SHARE today’s episode to help spread TSL message. Someone needs …

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No you haven't lost your touch. Yes you've still got it! No, your lucky pen was not the reason why you were successful.

You may have trouble telling others how you WIN...but it only takes you a millisecond to think of reasons why you are losing.

In my 23 years of selling, I've had MANY losing s…

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