Rep. 942 Do You Serve Your Beliefs- or Do Your Beliefs Serve You?

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Do you serve your beliefs or do your beliefs serve you?

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Man, that question changes everything.

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See, if your beliefs serve you, they support you, they strengthen you, they reinforce your faith, and they help you push back against complacency, confront adversity, and wade into uncertainty with courage.

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See.

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When your beliefs serve you, they're fluid, they're adaptable.

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There's a growth component to the beliefs that serve you.

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But if you're serving your beliefs, man, that's a fixed mindset.

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You've already decided how things are gonna turn out even before you try.

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And if you do try, bro is so half-hearted.

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You do just enough to prove your doubts, right.

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And you justify it by saying, see, I told you I couldn't do it.

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That's not growth.

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That's self-sabotage.

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Here's the truth.

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Hear me and hear me well.

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How you communicate with yourself is how you communicate with the world, and the crazy part is you don't have to even say a word.

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The world already knows your answer by watching your actions.

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So make your beliefs serve you and never serve your beliefs.

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Different results are going to require different communication, and that communication starts with you.

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When your beliefs serve you, that's an inside out job.

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You decide your next move, you not your past, not your fear, not the adversity, but if you serve your beliefs, you let the outside tell what the inside to do.

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You let uncertainty, adversity, and all these circumstances make the decisions for you.

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Absolutely not.

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That's backwards.

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Use communication, curiosity, and creativity to confront what's in front of you.

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See, when adversity shows up, you don't shut down.

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You get curious.

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You ask, what can I do with what I have right now?

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You end up gamifying the challenge.

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You move, you take action, you fail, you learn, and you adjust.

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That's part of the process.

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That's how you develop grit.

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This is how you end up getting tough.

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See, your old beliefs are always going to try to jump out in front of you with the, I told you sos, but when your beliefs serve you, bro, you're not gonna stay down.

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You pause, you make the adjustments, and you push forward again with this shot clock mentality.

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That's what they do in sports.

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There's a reason why they have a shot clock, because you have just a limited amount of time to make the adjustments and get right back into the game that needs to be.

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You see there's always next.

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You don't run out of options.

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You run out of belief and when that belief goes and that old stuck mindset.

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Ends up creeping back in.

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That's why your beliefs must work for you.

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They reinforce you.

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They strengthen you.

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They express your values through your actions and people will feel that.

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Even if you never say a word when you're rooted in beliefs that serve you, bro, you don't need guarantees.

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You don't need to know how it's gonna end.

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You've got the courage to take the step anyway.

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So ask yourself, are your belief serving you?

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Or is it the other way around?

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Are you serving your beliefs?

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Check your life and you'll see the results in your faith, in your family, in your fitness, in your finances, in your fulfillment.

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Where are you stuck in your old beliefs and where are you using new ones to move forward?

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Flip it, make those beliefs work for you.

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Alright, with that, keep it simple, keep it moving.

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Never settle.

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Stay tough.

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Peace.