Oct. 23, 2025

Not Everybody Wants To Do What You Do Forever.

Not Everybody Wants To Do What You Do Forever.

Send us a text Most people you lead won’t want to do what you do — and that’s not a threat, it’s a truth. Your job isn’t to make them become you — it’s to help them become their best version through you. Leadership isn’t about creating copies; it’s about creating capacity. Support the show 📣Who needs to hear this episode? Please share with ONE PERSON who needs to hear this message. 🛑 Watch & subscribe to episodes on my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiNqFo05MJ6...

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Most people you lead won’t want to do what you do — and that’s not a threat, it’s a truth.
 Your job isn’t to make them become you — it’s to help them become their best version through you.
Leadership isn’t about creating copies; it’s about creating capacity.

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Keep it simple. Keep it moving. Never settle. Stay tough. 

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you know, one thing that I've learned in being a leader, it's that not everybody wants to do what I do.

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Not everybody wants to stay in the sales game for the rest of their lives.

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And you know what?

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I'm okay with that.

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I used to get offended when someone would say.

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Marsh, I don't, I don't wanna do what you do forever.

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This is just like a temporary thing.

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I used to get offended at that because I love sales, I love doing what I'm doing, it's given me everything.

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It's given me discipline, it's created tremendous opportunities.

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I've amassed all kind of different skills, and so it was natural for me to just take it personally because they didn't see it the way that I saw it.

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But over time I've realized my job isn't to get them to love what I love.

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My job is to help them learn what I've learned.

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I've just gotta pour into 'em so they don't have to become me.

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They can just take pieces of what I poured into them.

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Of me and apply it to their lives the skills, the standards, the lessons, whatever it is, you can transfer these skills into the rest of your life.

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That's what true leadership is.

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That's what leadership is for you, the impact that you make on other people.

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Like the greatest compliment in the world is when I run into somebody at the grocery store that I haven't seen in years, and they say, I still use everything that you taught me today.

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I'm not in the same field, but man, I still use it and I'm killing it.

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That's the best compliment in the world for me the position may change, but the skills they take forward are permanent and that's your job as a leader.

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The people that you're leading, man, they're not all going to stay.

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And you gotta be okay with that.

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They're not all gonna follow your path, but while they're with you, it is your responsibility to pour into them and develop them.

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Not to create clones, but to create capacity.

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The capacity and the creativity.

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They can become more so they can step into their true potential.

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That's what your job is, the impact that you make to develop them, to move forward in life.

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Those are transferable skills that they can take with them for the rest of their life.

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Somebody did it for you and now you need to do it for someone else.

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Be proud that you are a part of their life for however long it is.

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It could be five months, or it could be five years.

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How long they stay is irrelevant.

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What they take with them when they leave is the only thing that's relevant.

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Alright, keep it simple.

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Keep it moving.

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Never settle.

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Stay tough.

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Peace.