July 10, 2024
845. Choose Hard Or Hard Will Choose You.
Choose or be chosen.
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Keep it simple. Keep it moving. Never settle. Stay tough.
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When it's easy.
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Go hard.
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Now is not the time to let up.
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See when things get easy, That's when you need the press, the gas pedal even harder.
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Because this is your moment to capitalize.
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On your momentum.
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Because right now you're playing with house money.
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I see in the casino industry, house money refers to winnings.
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That exceed your initial investment.
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It's essentially free money.
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And so in the same way, When life feels easy for you.
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You're playing with house money.
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You've already put in the hard work.
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And now.
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You have momentum.
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And it is so important.
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So crucial.
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To resist the urge to relax.
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When things get easy.
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We have a new salesperson and he's a young man.
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And he was in the restaurant industry and he came to sell with us.
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And made the most money he ever made in his life last month.
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And this month.
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I'm having to constantly kick them in the butt.
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And say, get to work.
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mean just yesterday I was talking to him and he's like, yeah, man, the.
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Things are slow right now.
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And the, the leads that are coming in there.
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They're really nice.
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Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
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This is only your second month in the business.
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You don't know.
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What's slow looks like let me make this guarantee.
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The store is going to get at least.
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Three phone calls of customers who were interested in a vehicle.
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I guarantee you, there will be three customers that walk on the lot today.
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I promise you.
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That there will be three customers who submit.
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A lead.
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Asking about a particular vehicle in stock.
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If three is all we get.
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You better get all three of them.
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That's how you have to look at things.
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'cause right now.
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He's not choosing hard.
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And all of that momentum that he built up.
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And cashed out.
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Now he's got nothing in the pipeline.
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And I'm and I'm calling him out, but we're all guilty of it.
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Because we forget how tough it was to get here.
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We forget the long hours, the frustration, the days when progress seemed impossible.
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The days when you had to push through, even when it seemed like everyone else was successful, except for you, don't forget those hard times.
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When things are easy now.
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Avoid slipping back into complacency.
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You gotta remember, you gotta be dyslexic.
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To whatever's going on in your life right now.
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So if it's hard right now, Simplify.
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Don't swing for the fences.
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Don't over-complicate things.
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Don't allow any sort of narrative in your mind.
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Consistently do just a few simple task.
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With no negative chatter.
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The only thing you should be talking about is production.
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Not destruction.
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But on the flip side of that.
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When it gets easy.
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You gotta go hard.
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This is the time to make significant progress.
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Take on more challenges, take on more risk.
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Reach new levels.
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It's not the time to sit back because now is the time that you're playing with house money, everything that has been stored up.
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You got that momentum going?
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It's free money.
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Go for it all.
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is how you develop more confidence.
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Let me tell you something about confidence.
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You can't save confidence for later.
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Confidence.
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Must be spent.
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The more you use it and the more you spend it.
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The more confidence you'll get.
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In that crazy people think that when they get some confidence, they do a little bit less.
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But doing less is where you lose the confidence.
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It's counterintuitive to logic.
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Logic would tell you.
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You've got good things going, take it easy.
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Relax a little bit, protect yourself a little bit.
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You don't need to step out there.
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If you don't spend confidence.
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You're never going to earn any more.
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So you got to spend it, you got to take the risk and what better time to do it?
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When things feel easy when things are going easy for you.
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When you got a hot hand going capitalize on it.
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Don't cauterize it.
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Don't shrink.
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Go for more.
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The biggest deception we have in life.
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Is believing that all of your work.
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Is finally paying off.
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That's true.
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It is paying off.
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But see you forget there's a lag.
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The lead is your effort, the lag.
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Is the results in the lag.
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And all of the work.
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And everything, all the fortunes that you're experiencing right now.
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are not from what you're doing right now is from what you did weeks ago.
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You forgot about all that.
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You think that you're just so blessed?
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That things are just coming to you.
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It's because of all the work, all the strikeouts, all the embarrassments, all the frustrations.
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That happened.
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Weeks and weeks and weeks before you thought it was a waste of time.
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But see, it was storing that energy was storing that consistency was storing that grit, that resilience.
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That trying to figure things out, pushing on.
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All that was storing up.
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And now at cascades, but the biggest deception that you can have is thinking that it's going to continuously pay off.
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No, if you don't feed it more, the universe is finally going to say.
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You're paid in full.
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And before, you know, it.
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Literally before, you know, it.
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You've lost all of your momentum.
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And by the time you realize your momentum is lost.
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It's way too late.
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Never lose your momentum.
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Choose hard.
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Tackle the uncomfortable task today, the things that you want to put off, the things that seem so subtle.
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It seems so subtle if it's so subtle.
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To not do.
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It's also subtle to do.
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And this is the universe's way of saying.
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Stretch.
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Don't procrastinate.
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Go for it.
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And I'm not talking about monumental things, man.
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Go back and listen to yesterday's episode, episode 8 44.
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About incremental risk.
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It's just doing a little bit more when your mind tries to pull you back.
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I love Mel Robbins rule, the five second rule.
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And the five second rule is by the time you count from five to one, you should be in motion.
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A lot of times when I find that hesitation of asking a customer to buy from me or asking them to look at this situation one more time or go for something a little bit more where they've already said Nope, not going any further.
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It's the five second rule.
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I don't get down to one.
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It's like ripping a bandaid.
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I go.
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Uh, throw it out there before my mind has time to negotiate.
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Don't get into negotiations with yourself.
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Choose hard, incremental, tough things, incremental, subtle things.
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Just go in this way, dude.
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you'll never have momentum leak.
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You'll never run out of confidence.
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Will your confidence take a hit sometimes?
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Absolutely.
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Will you stumble back sometimes?
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Absolutely.
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will some days look like that you're losing.
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Yes, but you're also mentally winning because there are things that are going on inside of your head.
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That you're trying to figure out what to do.
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When all the dots connect.
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You're more powerful.
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You're unstoppable.
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You're unstoppable.
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If you never stop.
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You just keep going.
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And you choose hard.
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It's voluntary.
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That's the thing.
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Everybody's looking for the path of easy.
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Just choose a little tough road today.
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Do what other people are unwilling to do?
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And you'll be what other people never will be.
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You got to go hard.
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Because here's the thing.
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Either you choose hard or hard will choose you.
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There's no two ways about it.
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There's no three ways about it.
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So.
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There you can't hide from hard.
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So if you choose hard incrementally.
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Hard can never choose you.
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It's like it's looking around.
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Duck, duck goose.
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And it's looking around, he's like, oh, this dude's already doing hard.
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I'm going to the next person.
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But if you relax and you let up.
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Harp we'll choose you.
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It may take awhile, but.
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But hard will.
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I will find you.
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Hiding in plain sight, taking extra time off.
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Laying up a little bit.
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And she'll expose you.
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And you'll have no momentum to fight back.
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So as we wrap up today, let me ask you this.
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What's a hard task or project that you've been delaying.
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What have you been putting off?
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For next week.
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Next month.
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Next year.
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Or when you have more money.
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See the future is not guaranteed.
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Now is just get started.
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You don't need the perfect plan.
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You don't need more research.
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You don't need any advice.
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Start with what you have.
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Start with free work toward what you need, earn what you want.
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That's pro level, that's the three things.
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Just start with whatever you have.
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Stars.
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Your plan is going to change many, many times.
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Anyway, your cadence, the way you deliver things, the way you think about things.
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This is all you got right now.
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You will think differently.
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Life will reveal more.
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Life will connect you with other people.
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Life will.
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Open up other possibilities and ranges, but you got to earn it.
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So choose hard today.
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What's that one thing that you're going to do today?
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Hit me up.
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Let me know what that is.
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Your words.
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Your rating.
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And initiate the change they desperately needed in their life.
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And it's all from your words, not mine.
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All right, let's get out of here.
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Remember the greatest sale that you will ever make is the sale.
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You won't you because you're more than enough.
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Keep it simple.
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Keep it moving.
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Never settle.
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Stay tough peace.
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When it's easy.
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Go hard.
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Now is not the time to let up.
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See when things get easy, That's when you need the press, the gas pedal even harder.
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Because this is your moment to capitalize.
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On your momentum.
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Because right now you're playing with house money.
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I see in the casino industry, house money refers to winnings.
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That exceed your initial investment.
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It's essentially free money.
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And so in the same way, When life feels easy for you.
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You're playing with house money.
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You've already put in the hard work.
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And now.
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You have momentum.
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And it is so important.
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So crucial.
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To resist the urge to relax.
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When things get easy.
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We have a new salesperson and he's a young man.
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And he was in the restaurant industry and he came to sell with us.
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And made the most money he ever made in his life last month.
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And this month.
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I'm having to constantly kick them in the butt.
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And say, get to work.
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mean just yesterday I was talking to him and he's like, yeah, man, the.
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Things are slow right now.
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And the, the leads that are coming in there.
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They're really nice.
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Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
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This is only your second month in the business.
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You don't know.
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What's slow looks like let me make this guarantee.
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The store is going to get at least.
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Three phone calls of customers who were interested in a vehicle.
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I guarantee you, there will be three customers that walk on the lot today.
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I promise you.
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That there will be three customers who submit.
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A lead.
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Asking about a particular vehicle in stock.
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If three is all we get.
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You better get all three of them.
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That's how you have to look at things.
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'cause right now.
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He's not choosing hard.
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And all of that momentum that he built up.
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And cashed out.
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Now he's got nothing in the pipeline.
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And I'm and I'm calling him out, but we're all guilty of it.
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Because we forget how tough it was to get here.
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We forget the long hours, the frustration, the days when progress seemed impossible.
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The days when you had to push through, even when it seemed like everyone else was successful, except for you, don't forget those hard times.
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When things are easy now.
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Avoid slipping back into complacency.
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You gotta remember, you gotta be dyslexic.
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To whatever's going on in your life right now.
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So if it's hard right now, Simplify.
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Don't swing for the fences.
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Don't over-complicate things.
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Don't allow any sort of narrative in your mind.
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Consistently do just a few simple task.
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With no negative chatter.
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The only thing you should be talking about is production.
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Not destruction.
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But on the flip side of that.
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When it gets easy.
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You gotta go hard.
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This is the time to make significant progress.
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Take on more challenges, take on more risk.
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Reach new levels.
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It's not the time to sit back because now is the time that you're playing with house money, everything that has been stored up.
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You got that momentum going?
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It's free money.
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Go for it all.
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is how you develop more confidence.
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Let me tell you something about confidence.
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You can't save confidence for later.
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Confidence.
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Must be spent.
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The more you use it and the more you spend it.
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The more confidence you'll get.
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In that crazy people think that when they get some confidence, they do a little bit less.
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But doing less is where you lose the confidence.
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It's counterintuitive to logic.
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Logic would tell you.
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You've got good things going, take it easy.
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Relax a little bit, protect yourself a little bit.
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You don't need to step out there.
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If you don't spend confidence.
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You're never going to earn any more.
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So you got to spend it, you got to take the risk and what better time to do it?
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When things feel easy when things are going easy for you.
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When you got a hot hand going capitalize on it.
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Don't cauterize it.
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Don't shrink.
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Go for more.
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The biggest deception we have in life.
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Is believing that all of your work.
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Is finally paying off.
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That's true.
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It is paying off.
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But see you forget there's a lag.
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The lead is your effort, the lag.
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Is the results in the lag.
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And all of the work.
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And everything, all the fortunes that you're experiencing right now.
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are not from what you're doing right now is from what you did weeks ago.
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You forgot about all that.
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You think that you're just so blessed?
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That things are just coming to you.
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It's because of all the work, all the strikeouts, all the embarrassments, all the frustrations.
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That happened.
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Weeks and weeks and weeks before you thought it was a waste of time.
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But see, it was storing that energy was storing that consistency was storing that grit, that resilience.
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That trying to figure things out, pushing on.
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All that was storing up.
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And now at cascades, but the biggest deception that you can have is thinking that it's going to continuously pay off.
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No, if you don't feed it more, the universe is finally going to say.
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You're paid in full.
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And before, you know, it.
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Literally before, you know, it.
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You've lost all of your momentum.
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And by the time you realize your momentum is lost.
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It's way too late.
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Never lose your momentum.
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Choose hard.
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Tackle the uncomfortable task today, the things that you want to put off, the things that seem so subtle.
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It seems so subtle if it's so subtle.
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To not do.
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It's also subtle to do.
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And this is the universe's way of saying.
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Stretch.
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Don't procrastinate.
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Go for it.
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And I'm not talking about monumental things, man.
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Go back and listen to yesterday's episode, episode 8 44.
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About incremental risk.
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It's just doing a little bit more when your mind tries to pull you back.
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I love Mel Robbins rule, the five second rule.
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And the five second rule is by the time you count from five to one, you should be in motion.
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A lot of times when I find that hesitation of asking a customer to buy from me or asking them to look at this situation one more time or go for something a little bit more where they've already said Nope, not going any further.
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It's the five second rule.
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I don't get down to one.
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It's like ripping a bandaid.
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I go.
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Uh, throw it out there before my mind has time to negotiate.
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Don't get into negotiations with yourself.
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Choose hard, incremental, tough things, incremental, subtle things.
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Just go in this way, dude.
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you'll never have momentum leak.
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You'll never run out of confidence.
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Will your confidence take a hit sometimes?
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Absolutely.
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Will you stumble back sometimes?
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Absolutely.
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will some days look like that you're losing.
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Yes, but you're also mentally winning because there are things that are going on inside of your head.
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That you're trying to figure out what to do.
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When all the dots connect.
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You're more powerful.
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You're unstoppable.
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You're unstoppable.
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If you never stop.
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You just keep going.
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And you choose hard.
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It's voluntary.
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That's the thing.
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Everybody's looking for the path of easy.
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Just choose a little tough road today.
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Do what other people are unwilling to do?
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And you'll be what other people never will be.
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You got to go hard.
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Because here's the thing.
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Either you choose hard or hard will choose you.
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There's no two ways about it.
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There's no three ways about it.
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So.
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There you can't hide from hard.
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So if you choose hard incrementally.
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Hard can never choose you.
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It's like it's looking around.
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Duck, duck goose.
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And it's looking around, he's like, oh, this dude's already doing hard.
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I'm going to the next person.
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But if you relax and you let up.
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Harp we'll choose you.
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It may take awhile, but.
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But hard will.
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I will find you.
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Hiding in plain sight, taking extra time off.
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Laying up a little bit.
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And she'll expose you.
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And you'll have no momentum to fight back.
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So as we wrap up today, let me ask you this.
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What's a hard task or project that you've been delaying.
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What have you been putting off?
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For next week.
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Next month.
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Next year.
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Or when you have more money.
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See the future is not guaranteed.
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Now is just get started.
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You don't need the perfect plan.
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You don't need more research.
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You don't need any advice.
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Start with what you have.
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Start with free work toward what you need, earn what you want.
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That's pro level, that's the three things.
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Just start with whatever you have.
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Stars.
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Your plan is going to change many, many times.
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Anyway, your cadence, the way you deliver things, the way you think about things.
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This is all you got right now.
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You will think differently.
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Life will reveal more.
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Life will connect you with other people.
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Life will.
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Open up other possibilities and ranges, but you got to earn it.
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So choose hard today.
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What's that one thing that you're going to do today?
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Hit me up.
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Let me know what that is.
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Thanks for tuning in to what's your problem, the podcast.
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And somebody who's in a circumstance like yours.
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Your words.
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Your rating.
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Caused them to stop check out this episode.
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And initiate the change they desperately needed in their life.
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And it's all from your words, not mine.
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All right, let's get out of here.
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Remember the greatest sale that you will ever make is the sale.
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You won't you because you're more than enough.
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Keep it simple.
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Keep it moving.
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Never settle.
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Stay tough peace.