We often find ourselves caught between phrases: “See, I told you,” and “See, I did it.” The first one is defensive, used as a shield to validate preconceived doubts, while the latter is a testament to taking bold chances, stepping out with conviction, and achieving results.
Using "See, I told you" as a safety net nurtures dependency on external validation. If you continually depend on this phrase, you'll always seek permission, await commands, and surrender your confidence to others. Doubt will precede every attempt, and at the first hint of adversity, you'd withdraw, pointing fingers and seeking comfort in the self-fulfilling prophecy of your predicted failure.
On the contrary, when you take a chance and declare, "See, I did it," you're not just celebrating the outcome. You're appreciating the journey, the risk, and the personal growth it took to get there. This approach transforms failures into learning opportunities and builds resilience. Every setback or detour equips you with wisdom and insights for future challenges.
Even without all the facts, taking a chance showcases strength and conviction. Decisions aren't always about right or wrong, especially if they are productive. What's perceived as a "waste" by some may set the foundation for greater victories in the future. Embracing such experiences, even if they seem way off the mark at the moment, can yield invaluable insights for the future.
In life, sometimes you have to take risks. But remember, risks are not inherently negative; they're chances we take based on our calculations. Through these risks, we gain more knowledge, understanding, and the ability to fine-tune our strategies.
So, the next time you find yourself at a crossroads, don’t aim to vindicate your doubts with "See, I told you." Instead, strive for the self-assurance that says, "See, I did it." Be the one who sets an example; at the end of the day, let your actions and results speak for themselves.
Keep it simple. Keep it moving. Never settle.
